I have a question for you, flist.
I was involved in an LJ discussion in a community yesterday, and the crux of it was finding humor through making fun of badly written or executed books/movies/programs/etc. When was was in high school, I was friends with people who spent all of their time making fun of the world - the people, the school we went to, the classwork, the city, everything. They never wanted to discuss real interests with me, nor did they seem to have a true passion for anything. By the time I was a senior, I had cut ties with all of my friends for this reason. I thought I was better off on my own than with people who were so mean, who spent their time making fun of things to make themselves feel better about their empty lives.
Now, let me say that I don't think that everyone who makes fun of something is doing it in a negative way, nor do I think they are all doing it for self defense purposes. Sometimes it is just simply finding humor in a situation. However...
I have never read a book or fanfiction, watched a movie or television program, or gone to a social function with the sole purpose of gathering information so I could make fun of it, be it in my head or to others in person or on the internet. There are so many wonderful things in this world that will entertain and/or touch me. Why would I spend my valuable time on something that I intend to viciously poke fun at? If it's bad, then I don't read it or watch it. Why would I? Humor can be found in so many other things. It doesn't make sense to spend my time being mean. And making fun of something that you consider to be sub par or not measuring up to your high standards is being mean, especially when that something wasn't intended to be bad in the first place. I know, I know... Some movies, books, fanfics are intended to be bad, and that is another matter entirely. The creator has made that piece of media for people to watch/read and giggle over. It is humor. I think it is fairly evident when I come across situations such as these. The movie/book was made to be lovingly poked fun at by fans.
Let's stick with the book example. Why would someone who dislikes a particular book read that book (and other books associated with it) simply to poke fun? Why not read a book you enjoy? If you're looking for a laugh, why not read a humorous book you enjoy? I don't understand why anyone would read something they consider horrible just for the sake of making fun. It comes across as very childish to me. I want to read something that will become important to me, something I will love and enjoy. I don't want to read something stupid and then act like I'm cool because I'm totally making fun of it. How dumb is that?
So, yeah... I guess that's my question. Do you read/watch things for the sole purpose of poking fun at them when you aren't a fan of the creator or piece of media? And, if so, why do you do it? I'm not trying to attack; I'm just trying to understand. Because, on this, my brain just does not compute.
I was involved in an LJ discussion in a community yesterday, and the crux of it was finding humor through making fun of badly written or executed books/movies/programs/etc. When was was in high school, I was friends with people who spent all of their time making fun of the world - the people, the school we went to, the classwork, the city, everything. They never wanted to discuss real interests with me, nor did they seem to have a true passion for anything. By the time I was a senior, I had cut ties with all of my friends for this reason. I thought I was better off on my own than with people who were so mean, who spent their time making fun of things to make themselves feel better about their empty lives.
Now, let me say that I don't think that everyone who makes fun of something is doing it in a negative way, nor do I think they are all doing it for self defense purposes. Sometimes it is just simply finding humor in a situation. However...
I have never read a book or fanfiction, watched a movie or television program, or gone to a social function with the sole purpose of gathering information so I could make fun of it, be it in my head or to others in person or on the internet. There are so many wonderful things in this world that will entertain and/or touch me. Why would I spend my valuable time on something that I intend to viciously poke fun at? If it's bad, then I don't read it or watch it. Why would I? Humor can be found in so many other things. It doesn't make sense to spend my time being mean. And making fun of something that you consider to be sub par or not measuring up to your high standards is being mean, especially when that something wasn't intended to be bad in the first place. I know, I know... Some movies, books, fanfics are intended to be bad, and that is another matter entirely. The creator has made that piece of media for people to watch/read and giggle over. It is humor. I think it is fairly evident when I come across situations such as these. The movie/book was made to be lovingly poked fun at by fans.
Let's stick with the book example. Why would someone who dislikes a particular book read that book (and other books associated with it) simply to poke fun? Why not read a book you enjoy? If you're looking for a laugh, why not read a humorous book you enjoy? I don't understand why anyone would read something they consider horrible just for the sake of making fun. It comes across as very childish to me. I want to read something that will become important to me, something I will love and enjoy. I don't want to read something stupid and then act like I'm cool because I'm totally making fun of it. How dumb is that?
So, yeah... I guess that's my question. Do you read/watch things for the sole purpose of poking fun at them when you aren't a fan of the creator or piece of media? And, if so, why do you do it? I'm not trying to attack; I'm just trying to understand. Because, on this, my brain just does not compute.
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I lOVED the early books. And then the books got down right rediculous. After two books of basically nothing but porn, I stopped reading. I still read peoples flogs of the books, but I won't read the books myself.
While I appreciate people who do read them, and entertain me with their flogging of them, I also don't entirely understand why they continue to read the books if they hate them so much.
Is it jealousy? As in, this person is a horrible writer, but is making bookoo bucks, and thus I must insult her art to make myself feel better? Or boredom? Or just being a small-minded person? Do people who make fun of things that aren't to their taste just have nothing else to occupy their time with? No other things to amuse themselves with? Are they just mean people? I don't know. But I want to understand it as well.
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I'm glad I'm not the only one who is confused by people reading stuff just to make fun of it. Such a waste, man.
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I really enjoy shows like MST:3K. They make me laugh so so hard. I enjoy MSTing the occasional fanfic. I just find it amusing. I don't attack the author, and I don't enjoy MSTs that attack the author. I do enjoy MSTs that satirize the ridiculous and absurd.
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I think this all begins and ends with my lack of time. I have soooo many things I'm interested in, and I'm rarely ever bored because I'm always pressed for time to fit them all in. I work full time, and when I get home I have a long list of things I want to do and need to do. I'm never rushed, and most of my tasks are for my enjoyment, but it still feels like I have to put aside things I want to do to get to other things I want to do. So, me reading a bad fic or a book just for the lolz seems like such a waste of my time when I could read a good book for the lolz, if you know what I mean.
Because of my past experience, reading something just to make fun of it for being cliche or stupid or silly comes across as being kind of snotty and mean-spirited. Like, "Oh, I'm so much better than you because I don't write or even like crap like this. Haha, this is really sucky." I'm not saying that's the way it is, but that's definitely the way it comes across to me. That's why I have no interest in things like that. I spent my time trying to be an elitist in high school, and it never stuck with me. I never liked it. If I hated something, I just preferred not to talk about it, or just mention in it passing.
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It is different brands of humor, at the root of it.
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Anyway, we need more wuv and positivity, man!
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A mix of both. The anonymity of the internet makes it very easy for people to shine light on their nasty prejudices and tendencies because they can't be held accountable for it like they can in real life. Because of this fact it attracts, unfortunately, the scum of the earth. Ever been to 4chan? A cess pit of foul racism, sexism and cruelty. It's really almost frightening.
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Anyway, this whole discussion was started because of a conversation I had with someone about Twilight. They considered it to be complete and utter trash, but did admit to reading it for the lolz. So they could poke fun at it with their friends. I'm not really defending Twilight. It isn't amazing literature and I wouldn't consider it a favorite of mine, but I liked the first two books. I liked them, not loved them. I thought they were very addictive, and I can see why so many teenage girls love them. That's really beside the point, though. I don't feel the need to defend Twilight. If people want to hate it, then more power to them. I just didn't understand the mentality of, "I'll read it so I can be cool and make fun of it since so many other people think it sucks ass, too." Why waste your time, you know. Those suckers are 500 pages long. If I had gotten halfway into Twilight and hated it, then my ass would have put it down and moved onto something else.
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Anyway, I understand why some people don't like it for multiple reasons. However, I do not understand this intense hatred for me. Sometimes it feels like people want to drastically react to something they don't like because many other people do like it. All these fandomsecrets about hating Twilight? Like, woah. Why take so much time to make a secret and post it anonymously if you're just saying you don't like a book? That's a bit obsessive to me. I don't like tons of things, but I don't make secrets about them. I just shove them to the side and move on to things I do like.
Speaking of fandom secrets - I want to post secrets, but I don't have any. I think I've posted maybe three since I've joined. Every time I think of something to submit, I realize that it isn't really a secret, and I'd post it on my journal without any shame.
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I haven't read twilight so I can't say anything about whether it's good or bad. I think what you're seeing, and what is often the case when people say they hate something, is a reaction to the fandom itself. The Twilight fandom has made itself a quick reputation for being wanky, loud and obnoxious. They treat the books as the second coming and talk about them as though Stephanie Meyer is the first person ever to write about wangsty vampires and their human girlfriends. It's frustrating and surprisingly difficult to avoid because the fandom has become to prevalent. That's my reaction to the books, anyway. I need to read them before I actually decide whether or not I hate the book itself or just the fandom.
And I can separate them. I hate the HP fandom, but love the books. But sometimes what I see of a fandom makes me reeeaaalllyy dislike the source material. (SPN is a good example of that. I wouldn't have such a problem with the show if its fans weren't so infuriating)
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So, I don't know much about the Twilight fandom. I saw the secrets at fandomsecrets, but I don't really consider that to be a big part of the fandom. I've watched a few YouTube videos by fans of the novels. I've browsed and introduced myself at a message board, but I don't post often. The people I've had contact with seem nice. I haven't seen any fighting or wank. I've seen elbowing and ribbing, but it's all between friends. The fan base (regardless of age) seems to be more immature than what I am used to dealing with. Then again, some of the people on the PDS board when I was still running it were pretty immature, too. I'm not saying that as a bad thing, just a fact. They're content with their bubble of the world and they're a bit too easily excitable. I appreciate the enthusiasm for the novels and the fandom, though. Sometimes, it comes across as endearing. Anyway, from my minimal contact with the Twilight fandom, it doesn't appear to be as bad as some people make it out to be. The board I introduced myself at is mostly teenager girls. They're a bit naive and sheltered, but they're friendly toward each other and are friendly toward me. I don't think I'm going to make any best friends, but their enthusiasm over the novels is catching, and I actually like that it rubs off on me. Then again, I may just be lucky in the places I choose to hang around. I like to find the corners of the fandom, instead of popping up right in the middle of it.
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And I'm not even actively involved in Twilight or HP fandom. I've just found it surrounding me more and more these days.
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There is much difference between that and watching or reading something that you know you will get no enjoyment out of. Or souly for the sake of flaming. Thats a waste of time. I think Shalanar is right in proposing that it stems from jealousy. And shallowness.
However, the appeal of say, MST3K or B movies and the like is more like a bonding experience; a social one, and to watch such things with tongue in cheek and much affection and enjoyment. My sister and I (also MST fans)have always loved watching campy movies, intentional or not. Yes to giggle over or mock. But its because we love them. Not hate them. I'd even go as far to say that the people who produce b-movies do it to pay homage and satire the b-movies that came before, going way back to the history of film; not out of malicious mocking but admiration. And thats the auidence they attract.
But, you're right. Negative deconstruction is something else all together and a waste of time.
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It seems like the internet sometimes breeds this mean-spirited vibe that people feed off of. They love to get online and trash things to make themselves feel better. If asked my opinion on a movie I watched and didn't like, then I'll say I didn't like it, but I don't blast it out everywhere. And I wouldn't watch something just to make fun of how bad it is when it wasn't intended to be that way.
I love the internet, but sometimes the people on it are just so darn mean. Not my flist, though! You're all wonderful!
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Now, I have kept up with it because of the supporting cast not Anita per se.
However, it has become so Mary Sue masturbation that I just don't know...
I haven't continued on because of any need to poke fun at it or to be say horrid things about it.
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I still visit PDS and SDS from time to time. Still better than picking up the new AB books :)
Its hard NOT to be continually curious about a series that started out so clever and distinctive (if I may be so bold). Its like we keep hoping for a positive twist, but alas ....
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Anyway, I didn't even know you were still around LJ. You never post in your journal. Post in your journal, damn you! I'd pop by the PDS board, but I'd be completely lost because I probably don't know anyone there. I'll be a scared newbie.
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You will always be the patron one of PDS.
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Same in fandom. If I don't like what others are doing, I can walk away and find something else to spend my time on. But I guess you're right - it comes down to how much of my very limited time I want to spend on things I don't like. In my case as in yours: as little as possible.
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I had a similar experience with the Twilight books. I read all three of them very quickly, too and while it would be easy to point the many obvious flaws they have on various levels, they do make a very compelling reading. They won't make it on my list of favourites either, but I still liked them and I just know that I will read the next one when it comes out.
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Bitching and complaining is a hobby for some people. I think the internet lets it get more out of hand because we have that cosy separation and hopeful anonymity. I will admit to getting carried away on occasion, but I am not proud of it. Nobody (except moderators and betas) is forced to read anything outside of school/work. Nobody is forced to watch TV or films (okay - except critics and censors). If more people used their ability to get up and walk away I'm sure they would be much happier.
But to show that it isn't an internet only phenomenon you get a story from the dim and distant days when the internet only had six people using it and Pong was the height of video gaming! When we got married we went to a small family run hotel in Malta for our honeymoon. There was a group of old people staying there - seven or eight of them. They sat together and it became clear that they were a family: Mum and Dad and their children with their spouses. They all seemed ancient to us. The youngest was probably fifty-something. They ate their evening meal about the same time as us every day. And every day they complained loudly and bitterly about the menu, the food, the heat, the roads and the fact that every meal came with fries and side salad. We were very surprised to learn that they had been coming to the hotel for the last ten years - same week, same group, same everything - and intended to keep going there for as long as possible. It has never made any sense to me.
I suppose part of the 'being mean' thing is fitting in with the group or maybe a sense of comfort in knowing that it is going to be bad and not expecting to be surprised. Or maybe the trainwreck response of needing to know how bad it really is. But I think you are right to pity the people whose lives are so empty. Then just shrug and walk away from them because you can do that where they so obviously can't!
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I don't have a good explanation for you; I don't really understand it myself. Maybe it's just an outlet for all of the negative feelings they've repressed that they can't express in a rational manner. No idea.
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Edward is my favorite, and I don't know if it's just the name, but I always picture Edward Norton as playing him. I wonder if they'll ever manage a movie? I kinda want to see it, and kinda don't. It could totally go either way.
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After OB, Anita becomes afflicted with something called "the ardeur," which means she becomes a sort of psychic vampire that must feed off sexual energy. Basically, this is a plot device to allow Anita to have loads of sex with nearly every male character in the series and then some. She becomes the female head of a wereleopard pard and becomes romantically involved with the leader of that pard. Meanwhile, she is also dating Jean-Claude and Asher. And she's sleeping with several others, including Jason. Her sleeping with Jason totally killed me. Because he's second only to Edward in my mind, and I disliked that she pretty much used him when he shows such genuine affection for her. I've heard (but not read) that Edward marries Donna and eventually begins to teach Peter (Donna's teenage son) the ropes of creature assassination. I think Edward has been greatly tamed in the later novels.
Oh, and Asher's wiener isn't scarred and is impressively large. Thank god she solved that mystery for us.
I still love the first nine (?) books. I enjoyed NIC, but did have many problems with it. CS is when I stopped enjoying the series, despite running a very active website about it. I continued with the website until after ID came out, then I passed it off to three others who had more enthusiasm than I did. I never read ID or the two (I think) that have come out since then. LKH says she has no intention of stopping, and that she will continue to write Anita books until people stop buying them. Which is good for the current fans, I guess. She's also written the Merry Gentry books. I've read three of those, I think. I don't really remember. Maybe just two. They're very similar to the ABVH books. The premise is that Merry (half fae) is forced to have sex with multiple fae men in an effort to become pregnant. Apparently, it is difficult for fae to conceive.