A Loss

[anogete]

Sometimes I wonder how I could have been friends with someone looking back at it. It isn't that the person wronged me or upset me in some grand way. Just that we have so little in common. And how did we find things to talk about all those times we were together for hours and hours? I like to think that I've changed very little, but maybe in these past three years I've changed a great deal. Maybe picking up and moving across the country twisted my personality into something else. Not necessarily something bad, but something different. Maybe the other person has changed...stagnated in the cesspool she's living in. That sounds angry, but it isn't.

Comments

[bleedtoblue.livejournal.com]

Change, and growth....even maturity(not a bad thing!) It doesn't sound angry at all...but it's always a little sad when you grow and others don't.

[donttouchmyhat.livejournal.com]

I've wondered that exact same thing. When thinking about those friends that I have so little in common with now, it seems that we were able to talk and talk because we were in the same environment, and we really just talked about the same things over and over. Then there *is* the growth, maturity thing...for some of us, anyhow ;)